had a good long talk with gen tonight, and sort of realised that we cant be girls who think about their own fun anymore. to be more accurate, we have realised it all along, especially since entering university, but speaking about it just causes us to face up to the stark reality.

in a few years, we'll all graduate. this is perhaps the last of our years in a less complicated environment, perhaps the last few years of opportunities to have fun. we will soon have to shoulder some responsibility of taking care of a family, the one we grew up in, as well as start one of our own.

so we begin to worry before our time, about the qualities the right guy should have. we are realistic, dont want no 5 Cs, we just want a drive to succeed, stability and lots of love. i believe we can both find him. ahaha =)

nice talking to you girl, hugs!